celebrate with me

"Promise me you'll always remember: You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." — AA Milne

won't you celebrate with me
By Lucille Clifton

won't you celebrate with me
what i have shaped into
a kind of life? i had no model.
born in babylon
both nonwhite and woman
what did i see to be except myself?
i made it up
here on this bridge between
starshine and clay,
my one hand holding tight
my other hand; come celebrate
with me that everyday
something has tried to kill me
and has failed.

I love this poem ... thought I might share it with you as part of our month exploring the theme of resilience.

Don't we all have that thing that we were born which makes us different? I didn't have models for queerness, for butchness, for non-binary expressions, for sacred intimacy, for kinky topping and play. I too had no model. And I love this question: "What did I see to be except myself?" Would that I could have that kind of resilience.

I love the idea of celebrating this survival. Celebrating our resilience. Things do come after us, daily — the microagressions, the racism, sexism, homophobia, antisemitism, prejudice — and we don't have to survive it. Not all of us do. But hey, I'm writing to you here today, and we have. You and I have both survived it. Not only that, but here we are, ourselves.

Celebrations all around!

ONE COMMENT ON THIS POST To “celebrate with me”

  1. Candy January 8, 2018 at 12:03 pm

    Celebrate ur survival everyday .. that u have been able to look in the mirror and like yourself is more than some ever accomplish.
    The fact that u help
    Others with your talent.
    Inspirational

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